marți, 28 septembrie 2010

Loss

We learn all kind of different things in school, at home, from the people around us... in life, in general. There is only one thing we do not find out how to deal with it, and that thing is LOSS.

We do not know how to handle that, and most of the time we try not to think about LOSS. "We will cross that bridge, when we get there!" But, we do not do a very good job when we get there ... because losing isn't something we really get comfortable with! Some might say that losing is a natural thing. We come into this world with nothing, and there isn't anything we could take with us when heading out of the world... But, we just cannot accept loss.

We are humans, this is the human nature ... and I know one thing is true: we only appreciate something after we have lost it! (Maybe not "only", but most of the times).

My personal opinion ... I should try to learn something from every loss in my life and not let myself soaked into the darkness of the loss. I bet it is not a very easy thing to do, I can only imagine how difficult must be to rebuild a life, but there is no good in pitying yourself. We should take what we can from the loss and just move on!

and most important... let's not wait for a loss to show how we truly think and feel! 'Cas eventually, loss is inevitable!

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